Relationships. Good relationships last throughout life for many people. Money comes, money goes depending on the economy. Good relationships are a sign of social intelligence and can lead to networking and earning more money, and friends and family can help in ways that just paying money to someone can’t.
For me relationships matter the most. You may have a lot of money but money cannot buy happiness. Some wealthy people are very lonely and have no friends.
I find that relationships are very fulfilling, whether friendships, loved ones or with family. They have an effect on your wellbeing too.
Money will definitely make life easier, but it won’t make you happy. I’ve yet to have a good relationship. Presumably that helps, but I have no faith in women, frankly. So my answer is: neither.
Bob